I know it’s a British dish but wow some of the best fried fish I have had and it’s in the middle of the ocean
I Cannot Believe This Was Taken in 1987
Apple Photos flashed up this photo today in the “on this day” feed. Totally forgot it was the 21st of March! Look at us, two stylish (young) men!!
All I Did For My Birthday is Go To The Grocery Store
Yes, you read that correctly: the main activity for my birthday was a trip to a grocery store called Omega Mart.
So while the title is technically true, it needs some context. For a milestone birthday (let’s leave the number out of this), we planned a long weekend in Las Vegas. Hopefully, I’ll write more about that trip later. Including M and myself, there were about eight of us. I had a pretty solid plan for the evenings—this is Vegas, after all. Plenty of speakeasies for good cocktails and amazing food. But I hadn’t put much thought into daytime activities for our few days there.
While running through ideas with a friend who’s been living in Vegas since college, he suggested Meow Wolf’s Omega Mart. I had no clue what it was, but the group was up for it. The group we had in total was eight people, though our numbers shifted throughout the weekend as some people arrived early and left early, while others came later and stayed longer. Initially, we planned to visit Omega Mart the day before my birthday with 6 of us that was there, but between scheduling issues and a downpour, we couldn’t make it. Thankfully, one of my friends managed to reschedule usfor the next day, which worked out well because two friends who were arriving that night could join us, too. That made it a full house.
On the day, I discovered that Omega Mart is… a supermarket disguised as an interactive art exhibit. Or maybe it’s an interactive art exhibit disguised as a supermarket? I’m still not sure. After spending hours there, I’m not entirely certain of much about Omega Mart.
Omega Mart is located in a warehouse-like complex called Area15. You enter the store as you would any regular grocery store. There are aisles stocked with products you can actually buy—each one weirder than the last. I wanted to take home half of them! (See photos for some truly bizarre examples.) After a few minutes of browsing the aisles, I was really enjoying myself, and then things got weird—in the best way possible. I noticed a hidden passageway through one of the freezer doors. A friend suggested waiting until everyone was ready before going in, but after a minute or two, my curiosity got the better of me, and I went in anyway.
What awaited us on the other side felt like stepping into another universe. I think that’s actually how they describe it. Almost on cue, a friend who we were waiting for outside in the freezer aisle wandered in from a different passageway, saying, “Oh, you found this place too!” Glad we didn’t wait for them!
We spent the next few hours exploring this alternate universe, with the occasional detour back to the grocery store. Everyone had a blast. What I didn’t realise at the time was that there were interactive storylines and mysteries woven throughout the place. One of my friends texted his teenage son about it, and his son immediately told us to check out the freezer. Apparently, he was already familiar with Omega Mart. Until two days prior, I had no idea this place even existed.
Honestly, describing the alternate universe we explored is hard to do justice here. I recommend checking out their website and reading some reviews. I’ll post a few photos, but it was visually captivating enough that I wouldn’t hesitate to return if I were in Vegas again.
When we’d seen enough, we exited Omega Mart and headed to a bar in the middle of Area15, right by Omega Mart’s entrance. I ordered an old-fashioned, smoked right in front of me, while a friend ordered some crazy drink that was lit on fire and bubbled up with a massive bubble before he drank it. Yes, we took several photos and videos—it was awesome.
We did other things too. Before Omega Mart, we had a fantastic dim sum lunch. Later that evening, we went for an amazing steak dinner. Living in London while most of my friends live around New York, I was genuinely touched that so many made the effort to come out and celebrate with me.
If you asked me to describe my perfect birthday, it probably wouldn’t have included a place like Omega Mart. And yet, I had a fantastic time. A solid reminder to always keep an open mind!




The Kids Meal
On a flight to the States a few years ago I commented to the flight attendant when my kids didn’t like the meal that I want the kids meal since they looked much better than the adult ones. The flight attendant said they are and she recommended that I ask for one next time. I felt a bit odd doing it so I never did.
That is till this week. I am going on a flight without the fam and the menu did not look great so I figured I would order the kids meal. Let’s see how awkward that looks when they deliver it!
All I Want Is A Dumb TV
We got a new television back in October 2022. As much as I try to stay up on the trends in technology, purchasing televisions has always made me apprehensive. When I bought the television in our living room nine years ago, I remember spending a lot of time researching and still not being 100% sure what I was getting was just right. The time before that, when I got my first LCD TV, was just as stressful. There are so many features that I really don’t know if having them matters. Even when reviewers say you need 240 Hz or whatever is the thing to get, I question whether it’s really worth the extra money when M doesn’t really care and my eyes aren’t exactly perfect anyway. I digress. I just want to talk about one bell and whistle in TVs today that you cannot avoid: the smart in smart TVs.
When I bought my last television in 2013, it was pretty hard, if not impossible, to get a decent TV without smart software. I didn’t like it then. I only used the Wi-Fi on our other television a few times to update firmware. That turned out to be a great decision on my part. The Vizio TV we had was one of the models where they were caught up spying on their customers. I forget exactly what they were doing, but I think it was either using the microphone to listen in or to see what advertisements people were interacting with. Either way, it was creepy and illegal. It didn’t impact me since my Wi-Fi on the TV was off, so there was no way for the TV to communicate with the vendor.
When I received our new TV, the folks from John Lewis went to set it up for me (it was part of the deal of mounting it on the wall). They asked what my Wi-Fi details were. I told them they didn’t need to do anything and that the television would never join my Wi-Fi network. It turns out, however, that I was incorrect. I tried to keep the television off the Wi-Fi network, but if I did that, I got a warning that remained on the screen until I connected it to the Wi-Fi. I guess the TV was smarter than I thought! 😂
Full disclosure I took the original complete blog entry I wrote previously and ran it through Microsoft Copilot, because why not. The results were not far from what I wrote but just better enough that for fun I am posting it!
Operations is Just Like The Fire Department Minus The Burning Buildings…
Many years ago when I was working at a startup and my manager at the time (still a mentor to me today) was very adamant that I read Failure Is Not an Option by Gene Kranz. It’s about the NASA mission control from the earliest days of Mercury through Apollo. You might not know who Gene Kranz is however if you’ve seen the movie Apollo 13 he is the character portrayed by Ed Harris. The book is a fascinating read for anyone. I found it especially interesting since a lot of what I do in operations is planning for the unexpected and incident management when things do go badly.
The person suggesting I read the book wanted to have me model our group a lot like mission control. A lot of what I read and learned did carryover into day-to-day life running ops in a startup. When I began to realize though was we are much less like mission control then we are like a fire department. Yes we have to plan for the unexpected and have clear methods of work for what we do expect to happen when it comes to pass. We also need to think like the fire department. The most basic sense what that means is if you get a call that something’s wrong you show up like it’s a five alarm fire. Even if you think it’s just a cat in a tree you show up in full turnout gear ready to go. If it turns out to be just a cat in a tree one guy stays behind takes care of the situation and everyone else breaks and returns back to the station. However if what sounded like a cat in a tree turns out to be something more substantial you’re ready to go and you can jump into action.
What I just described is exactly what we do when starting an incident recovery call. You have to act like Emergency services do. You have to constantly drill people. No matter what the situation sounds like you go in assuming the worst. Even after false positive after false positive you still have to go into every situation like a major event. The alternative can be disastrous.
I originally wrote a version of this entry years ago after several large incidents me and my team had been handling. Its sentiment still holds true several years later. Since then I have been using this analogy a lot. It holds true for me several groups later in dealing with incident management. What took me a little while to realise after first writing this is that the same analogy goes for training initiatives as well. When a fire department isn’t going on calls for maintenance in their equipment their drilling. In order to have quick reactions in situations they know they have to work together as a team and drill together the scenarios that likely will come up. In the group I managed at the time I wrote this we did a lot of training. To the point where people were complaining of training. Yet the outcome of the drills and training were reaction times improved a noticeable amount. No one can be expected to be shown something once and be executed perfectly six months later when it comes up again. We all need to constantly drill using the tools we have while working together in common likely scenarios that may come up.
At the time of first writing another example of Ops acting like the fire department was we had a situation that put the fire department mentality to the test. We received an email around a problem that had been kicking around with others for two days. At first pass it didn’t sound like it was much to do with our group however it didn’t feel right. We were not sure what was going on so we made the decision to mobilise to rule anything out. It was the right decision. The lead of our incident recovery call confirmed after a few hours that there was a problem, identified the upstream service, and got the right people engaged to solve the issue. The same type of thing could have come in and been nothing. Many times it is nothing. By mobilising we headed off a potentially worse problem.
In that group back in 2016 my manager at the time gave me a baseball bat that I kept at my desk. He used to use it when talking to people to tell them if they ran into issues he could help with getting things done. He gave it to me in a very public way to show my team I could do the same for them. It was an important symbolic gesture. I never really used it but it was nice to roll around on the floor or otherwise fidget with it during a long incident. When I moved out of that operations group to a more delivery role the person who took over from me was a good friend of mine. I made a very public hand over to him of the same bat. When still doing day to day operations stuff I had been meaning to get around to buying a fire hat. I feel that is more appropriate token to have around. Now a days its less appropriate since I am not doing operations / application support.
Fact Checking Homework With an LLM
I have no shame to admit I just used ChatGPT to confirm my daughter’s grammar homework was correct. Now if only it can babysit.
Unruly
I am curious what you would think if I told you I just finished a book on the history English monarchs from the early mediaeval period (aka pre Edward the Conqueror) through the end of the Tudor’s?
Would you thinking change if I told you that the book used constant references to things like James Bond, Pizza Express, and contemporary pop culture? Oh and it was written by a comedian? It also had loads of profanity, yet was still pretty historically accurate.
Your views probably do change however Unruly by David Mitchell was very funny and informative all at the same time. I was a history major so this stuff is interesting to me even if it wasn’t written by a comedian. It just helps that it was.
Power Up
My kind of museum. The Science Museum in London has a Power Up exchibit it’s all about the history of video games. They had most video game consoles and computers from the last several decades. The girls and I played Mario, Sonic and other classics to VR games.
I of course had to try the 16 player original Halo setup they had and get schooled by kids not born when the game came out. Well not really but it was super cool to try and play. I had flashbacks of playing at friends houses! You know who you are who snipped me so often!
6 Years
Today marks the 6th anniversary of us moving to London. I have been working on a Journal Book of our activities from that first year in 2018 (just because I am moving year by year backwards in time and I am on 2018. No other reason) and the girls are so small then. I sometimes forget that both girls now have lived more than half her life in England.
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