I sometimes describe my job as “using pop culture references to explain technology to people, or security to people.” It started as a joke, but honestly, it’s not far off. I do that. A lot.
There’s something about a good movie quote or TV moment that just clicks when you’re trying to explain a technical concept. It makes it human, relatable, and a little less dry. So yeah, I lean into it.
But here’s the tricky part: I live in England now. I’ve been here almost eight years, and I’ve learned that some of my go-to cultural references don’t always travel well.
Every so often, I’ll start telling a story and then have to stop myself mid-sentence to ask, “Have you ever heard of…?” And depending on the answer, I either get to deliver a perfect analogy or end up staring into polite, confused faces.
Sometimes I strike gold, but other times there’s deafening silence. Office Space is hit or miss. The Simpsons are more universal, but even that’s patchy. And there’s that moment where I think, never mind, not worth the detour.
It works both ways too. My British colleagues drop references that go straight over my head. My response is to politely tell them I have no clue what they’re talking about. We usually get a laugh out of that.
Still, every so often, the worlds overlap beautifully. For example, I once used a Highlander reference, “There can be only one,” in a meeting. It landed with absolutely no one. Then, a week later, one of my coworkers heard someone else use it (a Brit, no less), watched the movie, and loved it. More recently, my boss used the same line in another meeting. I always knew it was a thing.
Maybe that’s the fun of it, figuring out which cultural shorthand actually connects across different backgrounds. Some hit, some miss, but when they do work, it’s this small, shared spark of understanding. And honestly, that’s kind of the whole point.
Photo is the hallway set from the Big Bang Theory. My sister, mom and I were on the backlot for my mom’s birthday last year and I got some really good photos. Appropriate since I use that show as references, although it would have been better if there was a set from How I Met Your Mother since I quote that show much more!