Its Been a Year

Time really does play tricks on you.  On one hand it feels like forever since we got to London.  On the other hand sometimes it feels like we just got here.  Today marks a year since we arrived in London.  A year ago we were leaving the freezing cold to the great unknown of another country.  We said goodbye to family for our great adventure.  Today my sister and family are here visiting for the holidays.   Both M’s parents and my mom have visited at least once.  The girls are adjusted and thriving in their new schools and making new friends.

Overall its been an amazing journey.  It hasn’t been easy all the time.  As of now it has been totally worth it!  Here is to year 2 in the United Kingdom.

So You Want To Move To Another Country Part Whatever: You Need Credit

I have generally been pretty good with my credit. I pay all my balances off every month and my US credit has been excelent for years.

I knew when coming to the UK that my credit doesn’t carry over. I also learned that I might be in the lucky position to be using services from companies that would transfer my credit to their corresponding divisions in the UK.  That is a perk of working with a multi national organisation.

My usage of American Express cards is measured in decades. It makes me feel old. I also remember fondly that my dad thought it was amusing that I had an American Express Gold card in college. He gave me one on his account for any emergency purchases. Thinking about that, it might be its own post at some point. Needless to say after college an American Express card was one of the first cards I got. I was thankful to find out that American Express will issue me cards in the UK based off of my history with them in the US.

Process to get my American Express card in the UK was seamless. I filled out an online form and the cards arrived at our house in London. The cards were literally waiting for us when we got to our house. I cannot say enough nice things about the process from American Express to do this. In this situation membership does have its privileges. Pun intended. The only thing I would comment about my experience with American Express isn’t really a negative since I got something for free. I was going to downgrade one of my cards in the US however I got hard sold into not doing it. They basically gave it to me for free however it’s yet another conversation I  have to have with them later this year. I know they’re expecting me to forget and just pay for it. Be warned Annex I will not forget to call to downgrade that account.

The thing with American Express is even in the United States it’s not excepted everywhere. I heard mixed opinions from British friends on how widely accepted AMEX was. My experience is it is generally accepted the vast majority of the time we go to use it. Is it less widely accepted as in the states? I don’t know, maybe. Either way having it is your only card does limit you. Even in the US I would always have a backup just in case.

That leads me to trying to get a card from my bank. When it became pretty apparent we were going to move we opened an account with a multinational bank that was one of the few that have accommodations for people in my situation moving to new countries. I am writing about my experience in getting accounts created them in another post, so I won’t go into that here. I did sign up for a MasterCard in the United States specifically so I could build up credit history bank so I could transfer that history over to their UK division.

Once living in the UK I waited several months to apply for the credit card via my bank. I delayed partly because I wanted to see how far we can get with AMEX. I also was pretty lazy. I feel that all the forms to apply and then didn’t hear anything for several weeks. Then I get a letter saying I been declined. I was a little surprised. On one hand I do not keep very much money in the UK branch of this bank. I do my day-to-day banking with an online only bank. I didn’t think that would matter since I have a decent amount of funds in other locations with them. The way their whole system works is having funds at one location counts towards the other.

I was rather annoyed by being declined. I was also curious why. I called them to ask and got a bunch of runaround. Finally they filed an official appeal on my behalf. They told me that would be something like 6 to 8 weeks before they got back to me with an answer. Over a month later I got a letter telling me that three weeks after that they should have a response to me. When I finally got a written response all it said was I was declined and they couldn’t really say specifically why. But it may be one of many different factors. I get not having a lot of a credit history would prevent me from getting something from a service provider that I’ve never used before however these guys were supposed to be different. I should not be surprised since the general feedback about them in all of the expected some part of are negative.

Server Need a Spa Day

I learnt something new at work this week. Apparently when you’re moving servers and computer equipment large distances when it gets to its destination it needs to rest for a few hours. I am assured they don’t need massages or comfortable beds. Or if we want that it’s only in the premium package.

W Sister Short on Sports

The other day we were going out to a birthday party.  M called up to the girls: “Girls get your trainers on for the birthday party since there will be sports.” The girls both groaning a reply “we don’t like sports”.

The first thing that pops into my mind is that they are totally my children.

Photo from me during my first year playing Soccer (ie Football) since I don’t typically post pictures of the girls.

The Story of Yet Another Android Phone I Wont Have For Long

In late July I went to the car phone warehouse in the mall at Canary wharf and bought a new Nokia 6.1 android phone. I have been on and off again if I wanted to purchase another android phone. A month or so ago I was in the same store and opted not to buy something. At the time I was convinced history would repeat itself and I would buy a phone simply to return it or sell it in a few months. That is what i have tended to do with Android phones. That may still be the case with this phone. My motivation this time around was I wanted a pretty big screen compared to the iPhone SE that I got from work.

The intention is to use this phone for work and have it be the only device i have the work management apps on. I am trying to keep the annoying work management applications off my personal iPhone X. The challenges the iPhone that I get from work has a tiny screen then I can’t really see any more. Instead of spending huge amounts of money out of my own pocket on work phone I figured I would splurge on an entry level android phone with the big screen to use for work applications.

I won’t use android for personal use due to my security concerns that I’ve outlined previously. I’m a little concerned about using it at all however for work applications I am less worried. Yes for those die hard people reading this i know that my location will be leaked to google and a whole bunch of other things issues with data collection they may have on me. For now I am not ok with it but willing to try the phone anyway. It’s like i know that cup cake is bad for me or that Amazon Echo in my office is bad for me. I eat it and have it but know i will likely have to deal with it somehow later.

My goal is to uninstall the work management application on my personal number. I have been lazy so having it on my personal phone has been nice. The final straw for me was my company switched management applications a few months ago. The new one requires you to change your PIN code frequently. It’s annoying and unnecessary and certificates and email application.

I started debating about purchasing an android phone a few months ago. At the time I opted to avoid android and see if I can make it work with the smaller screen iPhone for work. Recently I’ve been reconsidering my decision so I started researching options. I narrowed my options down to the Moto G6 plus for the new Nokia 6.1. Both phones reviewed very well. The Moto G6 plus seemed to come out on top in every review I read.. In any event it was close. I opted for the Nokia because it offers android one and a pretty plain-vanilla OS experience. That means in theory quicker upgrades to the operating system. For me that was a bigger selling point than all the other minor advantages the Moto G6 plus had. All reviews complained about the Moto reputation for slow operating system upgrades. That is a no no for me.

My first impressions of the phone are generally positive, for an android phone. The build quality seems pretty good. It’s a metal and glass phone. Some reviews questioned the screen quality. I don’t need super high density screens because I have enough trouble seeing things. This room is big bright and clear for me. For what I’m going to use it for it’s been perfectly fine so far. As expected my biggest issues with the phone are really with the android operating system and nothing with the hardware.

The android OS as always has been experience for me feels more customizable however clunkier to use than iOS. Using android phone means the trade-off that I cannot get texts from my personal number on this phone since I cannot use Apple messages.

Other annoyances with the operating system android ecosystem more specific is that my play store account can only be one region time. I can only change the region or country once every year. I thought Apple handled multicountry options poorly. At least Apple lets me switch between two accounts. Not sure if I can do the same with my play account. I have to try the same with the google play store.

I do like how the management app segregates the work apps from the personal ones. Is that and the bigger screen worth the security trade offs i know i am making by just carrying the phone? I am not sure. I like it however part of me already regrets having it. I am going to give myself a month at minimum to see if i use it and like it before deciding if it goes onto eBay.

W Sister Short on Biff’s Big Lie

T read this book the other night to M. It’s part of a series they read at school. Imto teach her to read all the do is read about this family. It’s pretty cute.. After reading this page A tells M “but she doesn’t . We have read the other books”

I would like to take some small piece of credit on her budding snarkyness.

The Story of The Great Internet Outage of 2018

This weekend will forever be known as the great internet outage of 2018. My DSL went down and the provider ended up thinking its my router. Problem is my DLS goes down on average 3 times a day. I have the up and down notification emails to prove it. The provider is highly rated and I like them for their no filtering and no throttling approach to internet providing. The issue is this constant mini outages. Usually lasting a few minutes. This time it has been down for a day. It looks like it will be down till at least tomorrow when my new router shows up.

This incident has finally gotten me to decide to switch providers and sign up for Virgin. Two other families on my block have it and say the speed is pretty good. Reviews say depending on the block you may be good or bad. I opted for the high end 300+meg plan. It only has about 25mb upload but that is around what i get with DSL. On DSL my download is theoretical maximum of 70 something mb. This change should be significant. I am also happy since i didn’t realize i have a virgin cable jack already installed right by my media center where the BT jack is in the entry to my house and thus everything is a wireless connection.

I have about a month left on my DLS contract. If i cannot cancel it before the contract runs out the one month extra cost will be worth it to have a stable connection. M is suffering with a data connection on her phone and no iPad. I at least have some data on my ipad. I had to get some work done earlier and had to tether my laptop to my mobile.

The Story of My Complex Relationship With The Old Fashioned

There was a time long ago (2-3 years ago) when I did not like the taste of a good old fashioned  . Let’s call that time in my life BOF (Before Old Fashioned). I recall ordering one or two at bars and not really liking them. Then one January a few years ago on our anniversary M and I went to Jean George’s. I remember the night because I got there early or on time. M and I were both coming from work so we did not travel together. Side note the subway was messed up and M does not give herself any leeway in travel time.  Those factors and the fact that I generally am too early to things added up to me waiting about 20 to 30 minutes before M joined me.

While I was waiting at the bar I figured I was at a three-star Michelin rated restaurant so I assumed they can make pretty good cocktails. Up until that point I have had bad luck with old fashioned’s. They just didn’t taste quite right to me.  I did want to give it a few tries before I made my decision on if I like them or not. So I ordered one and drank it while waiting for M. The verdict was I still did not like it. At the time that last bad experience settled the drinks fate. It was off my list of things I would drink.  Or was it?

Flash forward a few years and I tried one again. My memory is fuzzy on the circumstances. I think it was we were at M’s friend Joe’s in Maine. The prior year he made me a fantastic Manhattan. So much so that I started making them myself the way he did it.  Wow those are strong but yummy.. The next time we saw him I believe he made an old-fashioned.  When he made it for me it was really good and I enjoyed it. So much so that when I was out with friends from work I started trying to order them again. It was still hit and miss in the beginning but after that I got really into them.

I started mixing them at home. The old fashioned are more complex and time-consuming to make than my favorite sidecar. I made them anyway. The first time I ran out of the ingredients to make the old-fashioned I forgot what it was that I originally had bought. I turned to the Internet to see what good bourbon to use for the drink. I found a couple of review sites that talked about the best bourbons to use in the drink. I then took the two top suggestions and went to the local liquor store to see if they had them. They had both options however for some reason I said I’m gonna buy the second best one. I can’t remember why.  I think the description better suited me.. It wasn’t like one was that much better than the other. They just had different reasons for liking one over the other. And that’s how I started mixing drinks with the Four Roses.

When I would be out and ordering an old-fashioned at a bar some of the better places would ask what I wanted it made with. It used to be I never knew a good answer for that.  Then I started asking what the suggested options were. That’s when I realized I had picked a delicious choice because many of the places I went to with good bars would have the four roses as a choice. After a while when asked what I wanted the drink made with I would specifically ask for that.  Then every so often i would get a “good choice” reply.  It was nice that something i liked made me sound like i knew what i was talking about.  I really do not know what I am talking about.

Somewhere along the way in my old-fashioned drinking experience I was introduced to the maple old-fashioned. It was super delicious. It basically replaces the simple syrup,  sugar, and water of a regular old-fashioned and replaces it with maple syrup. It was a simple Google search or in my case duck duck go search and I had the ingredients and how to make the drink. It was significantly easier to prepare and almost more delicious.

I thought I found a new goto drink that i could make at home.  Side Cars are good and easier than a regular old fashioned however if i do it the way i like it with the sugar on the glass it gets messy and takes a little longer.  To have an easier option would be great.  I made a few of the maple old fashioned at home. In the same general time frame I was waking up with migraines now and again. That’s rare for me. I was curious what the trigger was. After a little while I thought the trigger might have been the Maple old-fashioned. It is a lot of sugar. Some foods can be trigger so I got really scared.  Migraines are not something I mess around with so that stopped my buying or mixing this cocktail cold.

That didn’t stop me from making or buying regular old-fashioned. I just make them less often since they are a pain to do.  When we got to to London I didn’t have the same ingredients to make the original ones I liked the cube sugar that M had bought so I at the time thought stupidly to roll the dice and had M get some maple syrup. After the first attempt i was ok.  So i tried them again.  I was still ok.  I was pleasantly surprised to find that I could drink them and be okay. No trigger made me very happy so I was back on making these delicious beverages.

This brings me to what inspired me to write what turned into this very long post. I had a finite supply of Four Roses.  A big positive of London vs New York is you can go anywhere and get liquor.  The local market we use has.  Getting a good selection of higher end liquor is more of a challenge.  Some suggestions given to me did not pan out.  I turned to Amazon almost just to check for funzies.  Turned out they had what i wanted.  Amazon had a decent selection so I not only got the Four Roses I wanted I now have a new goto place to order any nicer stuff i may want to buy.

Next up for me is finding a new cocktail to master.